Avoid These 4 Financial Mistakes Following the Loss of a Partner

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Following the loss of a partner, your finances are likely a low priority, so it’s easy to make some money missteps during this time. In today’s “Financially Savvy Female” column, we’re chatting with Rachael Burns, CFP, financial planner and founder of True Worth Financial Planning, about the common mistakes women make after losing a partner and what they should do instead.

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Mistake No. 1: Rushing Into Major Financial Decisions

Although there are some financial moves you should make immediately following the loss of a partner, other decisions are better left for when you are in a better state of mind.

“Identify which decisions must be addressed immediately and which decisions can be put off until later when you’re feeling less overwhelmed,” Burns said. “Your cognitive abilities are impaired while grieving, and you need to conserve your mental and emotional energy. Be kind to yourself, and don’t tackle more than is absolutely necessary.”

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Mistake No. 2: Not Reassessing Your Budget

Your financial circumstances have likely changed, so you will likely need to alter your spending behaviors.

“Rather than continuing your usual spending, you should see how your income and expenses will be impacted by the loss of your spouse, and make any adjustments necessary,” Burns said.

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Mistake No. 3: Not Updating Your Estate Plan

“Spouses often appoint each other as beneficiary and power of attorney, so when one spouse passes away, it’s critical that the surviving spouse update their estate plans,” Burns said. “They need to appoint someone to help them with medical and financial decisions in the event of incapacity, and they should review their successor trustees and make any changes if needed.”

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Mistake No. 4: Lending or Gifting Money to Loved Ones

“Once someone receives an inheritance, friends and family members may come out of the woodwork asking for financial help,” Burns said.

Before agreeing to give any loans or handouts, take some time to consider the requester’s intentions as well as how this will affect your own financial well-being.

“It may be hard to decline these requests during such an intensely emotional time, but it’s important that you make sure your own financial needs are taken care of before you can offer assistance to others,” Burns said.

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Gabrielle joined GOBankingRates in 2017 and brings with her a decade of experience in the journalism industry. Before joining the team, she was a staff writer-reporter for People Magazine and People.com. Her work has also appeared on E! Online, Us Weekly, Patch, Sweety High and Discover Los Angeles, and she has been featured on “Good Morning America” as a celebrity news expert. 
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