The topic of tipping has long been a bit of a mystery. How much do you tip? Who does and doesn’t receive a tip?
Since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, when we became more reliant on staples such as meals delivered to our doorsteps, knowing how to tip properly has become more of a necessity.
When we think of tipping, it’s generally in the context of restaurant servers. But so much has changed through the years, both pre- and post-pandemic, that now is a good time to review how to tip and how much to tip.
How Much To Tip in Every Situation
To get some guidance, GOBankingRates turned to the Emily Post Institute, a fifth-generation business that has been answering such questions since Emily Post wrote her book, Etiquette, in 1922. The Post family offers an incredible amount of insight on the subject of tipping.
How Much To Tip at a Restaurant
This is where people are most accustomed to tipping. Before the pandemic, the suggested tip for wait service at a sit-down restaurant was 15% to 20% before taxes, and that hasn’t changed.
If you’re sitting at the bar, use the same guideline, or $1 to $2 per drink, according to the Post Institute.
If you’re dining at an upscale restaurant, more people who assist you may require a tip. There’s no rule about tipping the maître d’ for escorting you to the table, unless the host took special efforts to find a table for you amid what could have been a long wait. If that’s the case, a tip of $10 to $20 is appropriate.
If a valet parks your car, expect to tip between $2 and $5 when your car is delivered to you. Plan on $1 to $3 for a restroom attendant, depending on the level of service you received.
But should you tip if you get takeout at a restaurant? The Post Institute says no tip is required if you walk into the establishment to grab your order. If you’re served curbside, 10% is appropriate.
If you call for delivery, a tip of $2 to $5 is suitable for a pizza order, or 10% to 15% from another restaurant. Of course, if the order is large or delivery conditions are difficult — such as in a snowstorm — increase the amount.
The fee charged by delivery companies goes to the company and not the driver, so add a tip to your order or give the driver cash at the door. DoorDash and Uber Eats both have policies that allow drivers to retain 100% of the tips left for them by customers.
How Much To Tip For Personal Care
How much to tip when you get your hair done, get a mani-pedi, enjoy a massage or other spa treatment typically ranges from 15% to 20%. Tipping in this situation helps you build a good relationship with your hairstylist or esthetician.
How Much To Tip When Traveling
When staying at a hotel, you might never see the person who makes your bed, grabs your wet towels or empties the wastebaskets, but that doesn’t mean out of sight should equal out of mind.
It’s appropriate to leave a tip of $2 to $5 per day for the housekeeper with a thank you note to make it clear the tip is for services performed, according to the Post Institute. Leave a tip for each night of your hotel stay.
The hotel housekeeper isn’t the only member of the hospitality industry who needs a tip. At the hotel, expect to pay the doorman $1 to $4 for carrying baggage or as much as $2 for flagging down a cab for you.
If you’re staying at a luxury hotel that employs a concierge, you don’t have to tip for directions or if they answer a general question. But if you use the concierge’s knowledge or connections to procure restaurant reservations or tickets to a show, for example, a tip of $5 to $10 is appropriate.
If you use the services of a bellhop, delivering your bag to your room warrants a tip of $2 for the first bag, but $1 for each additional piece of luggage.
At the airport, you’ll want to give the skycap the same amount for processing your luggage — $2 for the first bag and $1 beyond that.
Ridester, an online resource for rideshare drivers, recommends tipping Uber and Lyft drivers 10% to 15% percent. Tips can be paid through the app or in cash. As independent contractors, drivers have expenses that include gas, vehicle maintenance and taxes. Tips are appreciated and an important part of drivers’ earnings.
For taxi drivers, the Post Institute recommends tipping 15% to 20% of the fare, plus $2 for the first bag carried and $1 for each additional bag.
How Much To Tip For In-Home Help
You likely have negotiated an hourly rate with your babysitter or a set rate with your house cleaner or dog walker, so no tip is necessary. It is a nice gesture, however, to give a year-end or holiday bonus to those who regularly fill these roles for you. It shows them how much you value their contributions to your household. Real Simple suggests a bonus equal to pay for one or two weeks or a gift of the same value.
When Not To Tip
While you want to offer financial compensation for a job well done to some people, tips are not always required.
You’re already paying a handsome fee to several people in your life — for example, your plumber, your lawyer, your mechanic, your doctor — and even if your plumber was personable and cleaned up a bathroom flood in record time, paying the bill is enough.
There also might be people who have extended kindnesses whom you’d like to tip — but don’t. That includes your child’s teacher or sports coach. A cash tip could be perceived as payment for special favors, such as a better grade or more playing time.
If you’d like to thank a teacher or coach, organize a group gift for the teacher at the holidays or at season’s end for the coach. That way, parents from the class or team can contribute what they can afford, and the kids can sign a group card with no one child singled out.
How to tip and how much to tip can be confusing, but keeping this guide handy should help.
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Cameron Cole contributed to the reporting for this article.