10 Ways to Take the Fear Out of Budgeting

10 Ways to Take the Fear Out of Budgeting

Even those who have committed to a budget find the process difficult. One in five Americans say their biggest financial challenge is sticking to a budget, according to GOBankingRates’ 2015 Life + Money Survey.

But budgeting does not have to be scary. There are numerous ways to make a friendly budget that caters to your individual needs.

And the payoff is worth the effort. The Life + Money Survey found that one in five Americans named always living paycheck to paycheck as their biggest financial fear. Budgeting can give you the financial discipline to save enough money to keep such fears at bay.

Following are 10 ways to take the fear out of creating a monthly budget.

Related: 17 Biggest Budgeting Mistakes You’re Making

1. Visualize Yourself Reaching the Goal

Close your eyes. Picture yourself walking around and smiling because all of your debt is paid off. Your credit card is in your wallet and it has a zero balance. You know how much money is in your checking account, and you even have some money in your savings account.

How amazing does that feel? Jim Afremow, a sports psychology specialist for Arizona State University, calls this technique “visualize to actualize.”  

Visualizing helps turn your ideal image into reality.  Use this technique as motivation to propel you toward your financial goal.

2. Set Small Financial Goals

By making financial goals smaller, they automatically become more attainable. For example, a small goal could be starting an emergency fund, paying down your credit card or saving for a down payment.

In fact, according to Forbes, research has shown that setting overly ambitious goals is a surefire way of not doing what you set out to do.

Keep in mind that financial goals vary by generation. For example, GOBankingRates’ Life + Money Survey found that older millennials (ages 25 to 34) are more concerned with saving for a home than any other age group.

3. Share Your Financial Journey on Social Media

Announce your financial goals on social media, whether it’s via Twitter, Facebook or YouTube. Let the world know your budgeting plans and show them your progress.

This will help keep you accountable. Paula Pant writes in U.S. News & World Report’s The Frugal Shopper blog that public accountability is a great tool for keeping you on your game. Plus, it doesn’t seem like bragging if you share both the frustrations and the victories.

You might even want to consider starting your own blog. Doing so could be beneficial because there’s a strong community of supportive bloggers focused on budgeting.

4. Track Your Spending

If you are new to budgeting, start by tracking your spending, said Brittney Castro, founder and CEO of Financially Wise Women.

“You need to track your income and expenses to get a solid idea of where you are spending your money,” she said. “Try tracking this for a three-month period because some months are anomalies and you just need the average.”

When tracking, focus on two main areas: How much money is coming into the household every month, and how much is going out.

At GetRichSlowly, Holly Johnson stresses the importance of being honest with yourself. If you are shocked by some results, try and remember that the goal is to improve your financial life. Embrace it.

5. Use 50/20/30

Once you have tracked your expenses, Castro said you should see how they measure up to a 50/20/30 guideline. She said your spending should be divided up as follows:

  • Fixed expenses (mortgage, rent, insurance): 50 percent
  • Fun (dining out, Jay-Z concert — anything you want): 30 percent
  • Financial obligations (extra debt payment, emergency cash and retirement): 20 percent

“When comparing your expenses against the 50/20/30, ask yourself, ‘Where do I fall?’ And, ‘Where should I focus my attention?’” said Castro.

Read: 6 Everyday Hacks to Help You Save Money

6. Get the Whole Family Involved

Teach everybody in the family the basics about savings and living within their means.

“You may not necessarily want them involved in all conversations, but it’s important to give them the broad scope of the family household budget,” said Castro.

7. Download Budgeting Apps

Castro said most of the available budgeting apps are pretty good. “You just have to find one that works for you and stick with it,” she said.

Examples of budgeting apps include:

  •          Pageonce Money and Bills
  •          Mint.com
  •          Expensify
  •          BlackGold

Remember that downloading an app is the beginning of the process, not the end, added Castro. “Just because you download the app doesn’t mean you’ll stick to your budget,” she said.

Whatever app you choose, make sure you follow the budget that you implement.

Related: 10 Best Free Apps for Managing Your Bank Accounts

8. Make a Money Date

money date is a predetermined time when you review your budget. Castro suggested making a habit of a weekly one-hour review.

“Most people say I will do my budget tomorrow or maybe next week, but if you set a weekly money date, it becomes more bite-sized,” said Castro.

9. Get Familiar With Free Activities

Remember when you were little and the best activities were free? Well, going to the beach or hanging out in a park all day still does not cost you.

Google free activities in your city or town. A quick Web search might yield some surprising results.

Do you have an artsy family and live in Illinois? The Art Institute of Chicago is free for Illinois residents on Thursday evenings from 5-8 p.m. And kids under 14 always get in free.

Figure out what activities are free in your city and mark down those that interest you or your family and friends.

10. Accept That Failure Is OK

Sometimes, you have to be bad at something before you get better at it. You might not hit your budgeting goals the first time around.

Failure can be merely a step in the process of creating success. Turn your failure into improvement. Think of the places where you mess up on your budget as signs pointing to opportunities to improve.

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  • jacob

    How come people are so scared or lazy to do this when money is so important?

  • Great article. Making goals and making your goals known definitely helps – not only does it make you focus on what needs to be achieved, but also that you will be feeling bad if you don’t finish the goals. I started to announce my goals for my blog and it definitely motivates me to spend more time to work on it, for example, making a comment here, LOL. BTW, another great app/website for expense tracking is personal capital – I started using it recently and I love it.

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